Unfortunately, I have no real news to report, but I realized it had been almost a week since I have posted anything, so I wanted to check in.
As usual, our week has been busy but good. I have started a new sticker chart for the kids; they earn stickers for doing the things they are supposed to do, and doing it joyfully! We are still working on the "joyfully" part, especially the things that happen first thing in the morning and last thing at night (i.e. getting ready for school and bedtime). Last week was our first week, and Kathryn earned all her stickers, but Julian was 3 short. Kathryn got a roll of bubble tape as a reward. Julian had asked for computer time as his reward, so unfortunately he didn't get that last week. He is on track to earn it this week! So, hopefully, he'll get his first 30 minute chunk of computer time in months tomorrow. (as a side note, we've had many conversations recently about trust and computer time and earning things like that back - we'll see how he does).
I did warn them this morning that the 2 week trial period is over now and starting Monday, I need to see JOYFUL (really just not grumpy) or they don't get the sticker. Who knows if this will work, but I was getting desperate with a few specific times of the day that one or both of them were not cooperating. I am hoping offering the reward for something they have to do anyway will make it more appealing to do it without arguing. I'd love to see "joyful", but will definitely settle for "no backtalk/arguing". So now we've got our system worked out, our stickers are printed out and cut, and we're ready to see how it works in practice. It's so fun experimenting on my kids :)
Both children are doing well in school. Kathryn is making great progress in learning the function of letters and quasi-reading. At this point, the books she reads are mostly about deciphering the content and decoding the symbols (words). She can "read" the words because she can "read" the picture on the page. So, of course, the next step to help her realize the same word is always (or mostly) used for the same picture - a tree is always "tree", a dog is always "dog". She is a quick learner, so I am sure she will take to this quickly. Julian is also doing wonderfully. He has been reading a book about the human body the last 2 weeks (we forgot to put it back in his bookbag for library day this week). His homework has been to read aloud to me for 20 minutes, and I love hearing it; it definitely does not sound like the average 8 year old reading. He has almost no trouble with pronunciation; there are only a few words here and there I have to help him pronounce correctly. He took his Cognitive Aptitude (CogAp) test last week, so we have not gotten the result of that yet. I have a conference with his teacher in a couple of weeks, so hopefully we'll have the results by then.
Jason has been back to work for 5 weeks now, and seems to be adjusting fairly well. There is a lot of soreness in his back, and he has had a lot of neck-headaches, but that is to be expected, I guess. He has also started exercising to get back in pre-surgery shape.
And now me - I have been pretty occupied with research the last week or so. I have several speeches coming up, and I have been spending a good chunk of time finding books and finding what I need from the books, making notes and trying to decide what I'll say about all of it. It is very time consuming! I have a demonstration speech next week - I will show my classmates how to fold fancy dinner napkins... Then 2 weeks later I have a group presentation about Martin Luther King Jr. Shortly after that, I will give an informative speech on the local impact of global warming. Again, shortly after that comes my persuasive speech, in which I will try to persuade my classmates to be more eco-conscious. Finally, I have a tribute speech, which I have not actually chosen a subject for - yet. On top of that, I have a paper to write for my religion class, and I don't care for any of the 6 subjects I was given to chose from. My most pressing concern now is my biology test coming up this Monday, where I'll have to draw, label and explain cellular respiration. It is a lot to remember! There is a lot going on, but I enjoy the learning and enjoy proving to myself that I can do well...
So, those are the goings-on in our household. Hopefully, I'll see something interesting this weekend that I will be able to share.